The Human Behavior Podcast

The Gift of Time & Distance

The Human Behavior Podcast

Send us a text

What if you could spot danger before it materializes? What if your decision-making advantage wasn't about reacting faster, but about seeing what others miss entirely? 

The gift of time and distance isn't just tactical jargon—it's a profound cognitive framework that separates reactive individuals from those who shape outcomes. This episode dives deep into how early detection of critical cues combined with expanded decisional space creates a powerful cognitive edge in both high-stakes and everyday situations.

We explore the fascinating paradox of human perception: we're wired with incredible pattern recognition abilities, yet our emotional responses often hijack these systems exactly when we need them most. The true masters of situation awareness aren't necessarily the tactical experts—they're those who can process information differently, identifying the symptoms of developing situations long before they manifest.

Through compelling real-world examples—from hostage negotiations to everyday safety practices—we demonstrate how this approach transcends professional domains. The concept isn't about paranoia or hypervigilance; it's about calibrating your attention to notice what matters. Simple habits like checking store interiors before entering, understanding normal environmental patterns, or pausing briefly before making decisions can dramatically improve your cognitive positioning.

Perhaps most importantly, we address why these seemingly obvious practices are so rarely implemented consistently. The emotional impulse to act immediately, the false comfort of routine, and our natural tendency toward immediate gratification all compete against our better judgment. Yet with consistent practice and a framework like our HBPRA methodology, these skills become second nature.

Ready to develop your cognitive edge? Join us as we unpack the strategies that transform reactive individuals into proactive decision makers. Whether you're in law enforcement, business, education, or simply want to navigate life more effectively, this episode provides actionable insights to anticipate problems before they escalate and identify opportunities others miss entirely.

Support the show

Website: https://thehumanbehaviorpodcast.buzzsprout.com/share

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheHumanBehaviorPodcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehumanbehaviorpodcast/

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ArcadiaCognerati

More about Greg and Brian: https://arcadiacognerati.com/arcadia-cognerati-leadership-team/

Speaker 1:

Hello everyone and welcome to the Human Behavior Podcast. Today we are exploring what we mean by the gift of time and distance. We dive deep into why early detection of critical cues and the decisional space that follows are both literal and metaphorical tools for expanding your cognitive edge. We'll explain how this concept goes beyond tactical know-how, showing that time and distance can radically improve safety awareness and everyday decision making. Whether you're in law enforcement, business, education or simply want to become more proactive in life, this episode provides insights and practical tips to help you anticipate problems before they escalate and find hidden opportunities along the way. Grab a notebook and get ready to see how a small shift in perspective can lead to big changes in your personal and professional life. Thank you so much for tuning in. We hope you enjoy the episode. Don't forget to check out our Patreon channel for additional content and subscriber-only episodes. If you enjoy the podcast, please consider leaving us a review and, more importantly, sharing it with a friend.

Speaker 1:

A big picture concept, theoretically, philosophically, everything, and we're going to give sort of our definitions of what you know.

Speaker 1:

We use the term you know, the gift of time and distance for for arcadia come, for arcadia, kognerati, and I want to define what that means, because it's kind of, you know, everyone says that, oh yeah, you got to get time and distance as your friend, or time and distance, and it's sort sort of like in a tactical way.

Speaker 1:

But this is a really, really big concept, and so I want to give our definitions of what we mean by it and how we'll get into how what we do can kind of give that cognitive edge really fully, just taking the time to jump into these and define them specifically on what we mean by them, because they are, these are big concepts, right. This isn't something you're just going to cover in a one hour podcast or fully understand. I mean, it's very complex what we mean by it, but there is a way through that in a sense, right, there's a way to understand it. There's a way to utilize and manipulate time and distance to your advantage, and so there's a lot to get into. But I figure we'd maybe start I'll throw to you, greg to kind of maybe, maybe give some street definitions and then we can kind of go from there.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, let's start. Let's start small and then we can always get smaller, because this is one of those topics, right? So Brian wrote me a couple of notes to just say, hey, this is what I wanted to talk about today, and one of the notes that Brian wrote is explain the concept of early detection and decisional space, which I highlighted on my notes because I thought it was a great question. So, look, concept of early detection no matter what you do for a living, early diagnosis matters. So we identify symptoms, artifacts and evidence in support of reasonable conclusions, the further left of a potential incident, that we can identify those symptoms. And what's a symptom? A symptom is when early detection is the identification of diseases as soon as possible from symptoms, well before it manifests itself in some other way, and that increases and improves your chance of treatment and other outcomes that would reduce mortality. So why wouldn't what we do be the exact same thing? What we try to do is we try to put together these artifacts and evidence that tend to show that, for example, crime is afoot or that an argument is beginning or that this is something this person really doesn't want to talk about. How can we ease the transition into it Because it's an important topic. So it doesn't matter what in the human realm that you're talking about. Communication between humans is inherently simple, genetically and hardwired, and historically and primitively. But it's also hard as shit because we've evolved past the type of communications we used to have.

Speaker 2:

Then. The second part of that is decisional space. So there's a whole realm of possibilities with decisional space. But what I like is what Brian meant by it, what I'm reading into it, and that's the range of options, that's the range of choices that are available to a trained decision maker compared to an untrained decision maker, because there's a zone of possibility of not only making a decision but then implementing the decision. And the time distance gap that we're talking about is not a legal or a fiscal or a technological or a political. We're talking about lives hanging in the balance for saying something or not saying something, for taking cover, because you see this constellation of clues coming together and those cues would tend to show somebody that something was about to happen. So, and look, that's streeting it up. That's the simplest definition I can give of early detection, and decisional space, so you can imagine how vast the topic is.

Speaker 1:

Right. So kind of what you're saying is that you know, time and distance in general is about early recognition. Time and distance in general is about early recognition, and then not just early recognition, but then early with the point of having earlier action, right, it's not just, oh, I saw these things starting to coalesce, it's no, I saw the pre-event indicators, I saw the symptoms, like you said, and so we're going to create an intervention strategy now, right, so that we don't have to wait until that chaotic thing is happening, and so that's really the you know what you mean by time and distance is sort of the early recognition, and then time and distance is its own thing within it, and then understanding this is what you get is what the cognitive edge is, right, it's okay, now.

Speaker 1:

I'm doing this stuff I'm doing in recognizing these early symptoms of something, and now I'm interviewing, intervening or making my decisions based on those and the likelihood of what I think is going to happen. I'm doing that now rather than waiting for the situation to occur and then getting better at responding to the situation, which is where most things are and which is not really what we do.

Speaker 2:

Okay, no, no, let's talk about that briefly, brian. Let's talk about that briefly because 40 years ago I was hosting courses called the Edge the Edge like the singer that plays with Bono right, but the idea was that the reason we called it the Edge and then it was institutional, so whether it was in Grosse Pointe or it was in Detroit or it was at Powderhorn, for example, the courses at Colorado were called the Powderhorn Edge and the idea was that I didn't know then that what we were trying to build was the cognitive edge, because I was still stuck with one foot squarely planted in the tactical edge, was still stuck with one foot squarely planted in the tactical edge.

Speaker 2:

I was a police rifle master, instructor and edge weapons and impact weapons and all these other things, and then a martial artist, and so from shoot, move and communicate, I was always on the ground, the best at the tactics, Brian. The driving, you know, teaching at Selfridge, the emergency vehicle operation and the pursuit driving and all that other stuff. So I became this guy that was the best at all those things. But I didn't understand. I wasn't teaching anybody how to fish. So the idea was that I wasn't giving myself that next level. I knew it was there, hence the name, the edge. But I didn't understand that the step up was the next level, which is the cognitive edge.

Speaker 1:

Okay, yeah, because that, that that's, and that's where you know you kind of. What I say is people talk about time and distance, but you sort of created the way to actually learn it and use it. Meaning I absolutely, it's a great way of you know, oh yeah, you got to get some time and distance but like, okay, how do you do that? So, so maybe let's, let's kind of give a straight definition of?

Speaker 1:

well, yeah, so let's start with a sort of street definition of time and distance and and what we mean. And so you know you kind of talked about it, right. So time being, the early detection and decisional space, right, you know something. You know there's, you know we talk about. We did a whole podcast episode on time and our perception of time and what we mean by it. And you know we can slow things down and we often, you know, just because of the responding to different events and how it affects us, we jam on that skinny pedal on the right instead of pressing the brake a little bit, sometimes Right.

Speaker 1:

And then distance obviously it can be like a physical or mental distance. So you're talking about the cognitive distance, but it can, you know, whereas before it was most people considered it as a very tactical way, like, hey, the closer you are to someone, the easier it is for them to kill you, right, whether they have training or not, right, so there's a very literal sense. But then there's sort of that mental distance where you don't want to. You know that can help prevent impulsive decisions, right, and don't want to. You know that can help prevent impulsive decisions, right, and that's what you get in with, like the negotiation or conflict scenario or you know what. Why don't I stay back here? Because I have a few more options cognitively, not just tactically but that I can use.

Speaker 1:

So there's this very, very literal understanding of time and distance, and then there's the sort of the metaphorical one. And so how? Why are these two?

Speaker 2:

things together. Why like, how do?

Speaker 1:

you, why do you what yeah?

Speaker 2:

So you just said something that, if anybody's listening to me right now, grab your pen, grab your yellow pad and write it down. The closer you are to someone, the easier it is to kill. Look, you're touching on on a bunch of topics that we teach in the course. Even an untrained opponent that's inside your physical and personal zone is going to have a much easier time killing you or injuring you because of distance, right? Okay, so that's both literal and metaphorical. Why? Because look, who is the most likely suspect that's going to kill somebody in a house? It's going to be your spouse. Now, if it's not your spouse or significant other, it's going to be somebody that's living in that house, somebody familiar to you. So it crosses both lines, brian. It's literal the physical space, a vantage point, position of cover or concealment but it's also metaphorical, and that means emotion-based or mental-based or cognition-based. And so once people understand that that's what we mean, I'll give you a perfect street example, and I know you've read it.

Speaker 2:

I don't know how many of our listeners read Greg Mortensen's book back in the day. Three Cups of Tea. So everybody that was flying out was reading it on a plane, because everybody's trying to figure out. Okay, what do I do? Do I learn Pashto? Do I learn Farsi? And the idea was that Mortensen just epitomized networking, building the relationships gradually through interactions, and his Three Cups of Tea were those three interactions moving first from being a stranger, then to a friend, then to part of the family, before you ever make a request and conduct in business. Okay, brian, isn't that what we've done all along? So so I would say, as important as the book left a bang is, three cups of tea is an important book too, because my hostage negotiation that was quality Number one.

Speaker 2:

I need to get you talking. If you're talking, you're not killing, okay, on a traffic stop. I need to get you talking. If you're talking, you're not fleeing or trying to run me down or pulling a gun on me In a domestic. I can deescalate the situation if I can get you talking. And the idea is talking does a number of things. Again, the literal it creates a time and distance gap in your brain from action or reaction. And metaphorical, it creates a friendship, which means that now I'm injecting emotions which slow you down. Emotions will slow you down. That's why there's no crying in baseball. So so the idea is that it's a strategy. Okay when you get a symptom. If you leave a symptom unchecked, it's going to manifest into something else. So we're talking about the further left of this potential situation that you're addressing those symptoms and and making sense of them, the better chance you're going to have, especially in extremis of of making the right decision at the right time for the right reason.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and, and it's kind of that. And that gives you right where we're talking about this, this idea of the cognitive edge, of what what we mean by that, and you know. That's why you know we do it, know, we do it. We mean some of the exercises we even do in class. Right, we call let's go to the, let's go to the cognitive gym, because the the idea is you know all the the, you know the workouts and range time and mat time, that you do it, you know it, it, like you said, it doesn't matter if, if that person is a step ahead of me, if I'm in your space and I can do the street magician and fool you, then it doesn't matter how strong you are or how good of a fighter or how your survival skills are, it literally doesn't matter. That all gets negated, so it's almost like it has to start here.

Speaker 2:

A fraud is a cognitive attack. Okay, because I fool you on the phone or with a credit card, or with that empty gas can, brian? And? And the idea is, it doesn't matter how physically strong you are or how resilient you are, because I can still steal from you. And that's the great equalizer, isn't it? It? Because cognition won't let that happen. Okay, cognition will say wait a minute, something's wrong here. This doesn't feel or smell or taste. Right, you get what I mean. So we're using the Holberman, we're using that big 360 now, whereas before you're going, okay, I can out shoot you, I can out fight you and I've got all these defensive tactics. Well, it's wonderful, but what happens when the person can outthink me? What happens when the person's faster mentally than I am?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and the other reason I like these terms about when we say time and distance and the cognitive edge is, you know, if that's my goal, like you gave the example of, you know, the hostage negotiator or the domestic whatever, like, hey, if you're talking you're not shooting. If you're talking you're not doing, ok, so you're building time and distance that you're now actually taking control of the narrative and taking control, or I should say you're influencing it for the purpose of, hey, first thing I need to do is get some time and distance. How can I do that right now? And what I mean by that is that everyone's, you know, looking for a solution to a problem or a way to do things or a way to respond to this or this is. But it's like, hang on. But before you even get to that point, what have you done?

Speaker 1:

Going into a situation saying, how do I get some time and distance? Because and here's why this matters right, we're having sort of a discussion about this and I heard some other folks having it about about orientation, perception and how you see things, and you know people talk about reading the environment and seeing these cues and perceptions. It's like, but your, your sort of mindset, your goal of what you're doing shapes all of your perceptions. So if I go in saying, all right, I think this is going to happen, or I want this to happen, or this is going to be a chase, or this person's going to run, or this person's going to like your, that, that's now going to shape everything that you do. But if I walk in and go, all right, I want to go into this situation and get some time and distance, I get to create some time and distance. Now I've oriented myself, I've shaped my perception to come up with that solution. Now, that's my goal in mind.

Speaker 1:

Meaning, if I'm going into a situation with that goal in mind to create some time and distance, okay, that will then allow me that sort of cognitive flexibility to come up with different solutions in this situation. But but if I'm going in saying I have to go do this, well then I'm going to go do that and I'm only going to look for things that confirm what I need to get that done. Does that make sense? So, so, to create the time and distance and gain the cognitive edge, it it really is. Before everyone talks about, like you know, the, the, the perception of the elements in your environment. Well before that, there's a there's a world on unconscious world happening in your brain that governs everything that you do. That we need to start with, and that's what starts with the gift of time and distance, the cognitive edge.

Speaker 2:

That's why it's called the gift and the idea is, let's white belt that for just a minute, because you just laid out a great fundamental argument. Okay, so let's ask this very basic question which is most calorie conscious? Okay, so let's ask this very basic question which is most calorie conscious? Okay, is it more calorie conscious to avoid going into that room or getting out of that room once I'm in a situation? Is it better to avoid entering into that contract or that situation or being in it and having to fight your way back out of it? And so people are saying, well, you're mincing words. No, I'm not.

Speaker 2:

We had a great guy, adam Parsativity podcast, if anybody's looking it up from across the pond and he sent us some photos, brian, of the most recent place that he was doing a job that he does, and it was a dangerous environment. And the idea was look, you saw from a distance that these things started to coalesce and that meant that the danger quotient increased. So are you going to go ahead and grab that flashlight and climb down into that? Well, and get deeper to the source of that, telling you danger warning Will Robinson. So what happens is, again, it's the same argument, with the lights and sirens, we decide that we're going to get to the situation, because when we're at ground zero we're going to be making better decisions and influence a narrative. But is that the right place to stand? Should I penetrate before I've made certain decisions? So the utmost level of situation awareness is being well outside and understanding hey, something is going on here and I just being vicariously near it and involved in it in some way, and the interaction of the things in that situation may prove to be good and beneficial and wonderful if I decide to go that direction, or they could be the end of me so so. So that's the when.

Speaker 2:

When I say imagine engineering tape, you know that police tape and the truck outline on the ground before you walk into a place. I mean that. I mean that you should constantly be thinking that is this one of those situations that has the propensity, has the tendency to spin out of my control, and I can give you an example of that in the geographics realm. And so anybody that's been to class and if you haven't get to do a training, so a long time ago, before anybody else was doing this kind of stuff that I knew of because I was the only player that was running it for regions. I would say, okay, do me a favor, we're going to conduct training, training only. Make sure that you do that, because people will do stuff like shooting in a school and then all of a sudden say, oh, it was just training, and then wonder how that spun wildly out of control.

Speaker 2:

So the idea was okay, it doesn't matter what shift it is, we're going to have a robbery at this location, whether it's a 7-Eleven or a bank, dependent on the shift, all that other stuff. And what we want you to do is realistically figure out, from the time the person leaves, a bunch of things are going to be happening. So I got a team at the scene, I got a team in the parking lot, I got a team at dispatch and I got a team on the road and you got to do all these things. Brian, it's got to be a study. And so the idea was okay, once that person's left and you're going to dial 911, the clock starts. So how long does it take for you to call 911? And, with an average dispatcher taking the average amount of information, get that information out to the road and remember this was before Enhance 911 and all these other things. Okay, now, in that amount of time.

Speaker 2:

How far did the person get on foot? That means where would their car likely be parked, or is somebody waiting for them, or is the car idling, or did they have to hop a fence, or did they have to recon? So that means there's a witness somewhere that knew that that person was tying up a dog. All these things are possible. Now, that's close to the scene. Then the idea is okay, if this person doesn't want to get caught, they're not going to floor it and spin the tires and drive past the speed limit. So going the speed limit through that subdivision or on that side street, about how far could they get? No-transcript the person that did the robbery, because the person is already gone and they're already outside of that ring.

Speaker 2:

So I was making hundreds of felony arrests on these type of capers and people were going. How are you doing that? Because what I was able to do is profile it geographically and figure about where that person would have got. And guess what? If they were on a bike it would be different. If they were on foot, it would be different.

Speaker 2:

And guess what, brian, those type of geographical profiles, built with all the other heuristics that we do in the other domains help you plan in your mind and guess what? The more you do it, the better you get. So you know the first felon, it was a little rough, you know. By the fifth felon it got a lot easier and after a while I'm teaching the courses. So that one example of how to build that out and that's a rock in the pond, brian that's one perfect example where you can build an entire course around that and understand that all humans are likely to respond to external stressors the same way. The second part of that time and distance means that it's logical. And so now we're finding bad guys, if that's what we're going for.

Speaker 1:

Okay. So with that, with what you, the process, with that you just described is sort of like in real time, like this is what you mean by the cognitive edge and going okay, if this is occurring and I know these things, then likely this and then I can make my decisions. And you know, that is it's odd to me. So maybe, maybe help me understand that one. You, technically anyone, can do that, right, you're meaning, meaning it's, it's cognitively possible, we're, in a sense, we're able to do that as human beings. However, it's, it's almost seemingly counterintuitive, because we're also very, very reactive emotional creatures, just inherently right. So we're constantly responding to things, or behind the curve. And why is it difficult for humans in general, at scale, it's kind of general question, you know, why is it so difficult for us to then do that? Why do we get roped in every time and keep just following in along, whatever the trend is, whatever things are going or like?

Speaker 2:

you know what I'm saying. Like, why can't we sit here and do that? Because there's no crying in baseball, because our emotions get the best of us, because our electrochemical neurotransmitters are pumping into our brain that we're the best we need, need to get to the scene. We'll be making those decisions when, in reality, the gift of time and distance is understanding all of time and distance. So we all know theory of relativity, speed and space and time, so we can figure out where objects are. But we also understand Heisenberg and we can either pick one exactly or pick the other exactly. So folks, look those up.

Speaker 2:

I'm not going to take time on a call explaining those here, but the idea is, brian, if we think in those terms, I'll give you a perfect example. So you show up at a scene and the scene is absolutely chaotic and I'm on the ground and there's fires burning and gunshots were just fired and people are screaming and there's people down with injuries and there's one lone guy sitting on the ground and there's fires burning and gunshots were just fired and people are screaming and there's people down with injuries and there's one lone guy sitting on the cement steps of the house with his hands on his knees and his head down between his lap. Okay, well, everybody else is running and screaming. Guess who your suspect is? That guy's not a witness, that guy's just done all of these horrible things. So I would look at that and go how is this guy holding it together? Well, this guy's in charge of what's going on, this guy's at the center of what's going on and everybody else is spinning wildly out of control. So if you understand entropy and the entropic principle and you understand Newton's laws of motion, it's more likely that that person is physically responsible for what's happening around here.

Speaker 2:

So guess what I got? To give that person time and distance. And that's the person that's got my full attention now and I'm starting to say let me see some hands down on the ground, all those other things. Why? Because I'm processing the artifacts and the evidence faster than the other people respond to the scene. So that's the gift of time. And I understand the more distance I have from this situation, the more likely it is that I'll make a better decision, because when we rush to a decision, we're taking on a whole bunch of things that we don't want to take on. For example, when we're in a real world case, I make a fast decision. Then all of a sudden, I'm not understanding that that fast decision isn't the best decision and what I'm doing is I'm actually reacting, sort of like a knee-jerk reaction, to the evidence that I'm seeing.

Speaker 2:

And now we're playing what we call you and I call Brian in the cognitive gym pinball. Boom, boom, boom. I'm getting bounced around the scene. Well, that's not the way it happens. And if you illustrate that in practical terms, I am much more related to police work and to military work than I am, for example, being a teacher in a school. Ok, although we've taught at academic places. That's a different thing for me.

Speaker 2:

So we're on the way to a shooting at the pastime bar at 9 at Van Dyke and all of a sudden the people that are on the street outside are much more interesting to me than the people are fleeing from the bar. And I catch the guy with the gun outside and all the other cops are going. Man, you're a shit magnet. No, I'm not. Time and distance. Okay, where would that person be? What would I be doing? Am I going to ditch the gun? Am I going to hold on to that gun for long enough that I get clear of the incident location to make sure there's not other perpetrators before I throw it onto a business route. Brian, it's out thinking a cunning enemy, and that's what takes it from the tactical to the cognitive. Because now what I'm doing is I'm saying these things matter more than those things, and that's a hard thing to do without structure, without an architecture.

Speaker 1:

Well, that, that absolutely right. Without an architecture, without a structure, it can be difficult, because then I don't. It goes back to you know. You know, what I was saying is about how those perceptions shape our outcomes and how we orient and what, what we find significant. And it's in the moment people are going to say, well, that's, that's kind of hard to do, or you can't really do that because you're just you're, you're, you are responding to things as they unfold, but but you're, you're, you're not. There's knowns and there's unknowns and there's things you can project. You, you can project into the future. We do this all the time as humans, during the winter we do, I mean, like you, you, you're, you're hardwired for some of this stuff but like you said I, I, this is where that our, our training and response to everything is just that it's it's, it's so focused on.

Speaker 1:

This thing is occurring. Here's how we respond to that. But you're, it's almost like you're saying, okay, this thing is occurring, but I'm getting in the information, even if it's in front of me, even if I'm seeing something I'm I is occurring, but I'm getting in the information, even if it's in front of me, even if I'm seeing something, I'm sort of I'm in the, I'm like in the I'm picking up in the past or in a sense, like that thing has already occurred, that that ball is already in motion. So if I'm chasing the last spot it was at, I'm never going to catch it because I'm just going after the last spot.

Speaker 2:

It's a hockey puck example exactly so.

Speaker 1:

But then how, like in those times, like, how do you then orient yourself in that way, like you just give the example, like you show up, I got the guy you know this is what it was. He was the one with the gun and wasn't focused on the thing that was happening right here. So it's like how can I take that and then use what I have as a human being already born with, just biologically wired for, like which we are, for success and pattern recognition and all these things Right? So how can I do that in, in understanding that that time and distance right, like because that that seems difficult to then say, all right, what's likely to occur next? But but if I don't do that, then I'm always going. Here's how I respond, but I'm responding in the past. I'm responding to a past incident.

Speaker 2:

To an echo, to a ghost of what was. You're exactly right, and so let's talk about that. And let me give you an example. 110 years apart, so in 1914, franz Ferdinand and his wife were assassinated, and Gavrilo Princip was the one that did it, with a bunch of other people, but he didn't do it at the initial time when they were flinging lead and throwing grenades. As a matter of fact, they killed part of the personal security detachment and injured other parts. So what does Franz Ferdinand want to do? He wants to take his wife and he wants to go check on them at the local hospital. So who's fleeing through the backyards? Gavrilo Princip is fleeing through the backyards and ends up crossing the street on the way to the hospital, completely by happenstance, and sees Franz Ferdinand and his old lady in their limo, now sans security because the security's all been injured at this other ambush location. So Gavrilo says you know what, here's a chance in a lifetime, and goes and kills france ferdinand and his old lady.

Speaker 2:

You're saying that was complete happenstance. I'm saying it was inevitable. Why? Because france ferdinand and his driver and his old lady just escaped an ambush and they were still in that danger zone. And so what did they do? They said, well, we're going to go to the hospital and check on these people, not saying we need to go to a covered and concealed position. We need to get a new security attachment. We need to do these. So you have policy and procedure, you have TTPs. Those are all great things, but in the moment, that short fuse decision I made killed me.

Speaker 2:

So let's go to 2024 and let's go to Luigi Mangione. He's hanging around in a hotel and he's obviously not a member of that hotel or belonging in that hotel. And you got Brian Thompson, the CEO of US Health, that's walking through the lobby. Now think about UnitedHealthcare and think about all the threats that they've had and everything else. One, he doesn't have security. Two, he's not situationally aware. Three, he's not six-checking. And this guy walks up and blasts away at him and again you're going wow, those things are. Look again. I will tell you it's inevitable. You give enough time and evidence to support that. It was an ongoing thing to try to take his life. Brian Thompson contributed to his own death by being in a low level of situation awareness in a hotel lobby and never anticipating that one of these days, coming out of my car or the parking garage, somebody might accost me, and so that's hard to take, brian, because what we do is we go well, wait a minute.

Speaker 2:

You're saying that's a personality thing or that's a this and that Now it's an emotional thing. We all think that it's not going to happen to us and part of the reason that the gift of time and distance is out there is, it can. There was a cop that died last night or the night before, rather, shot by a 14-year-old kid. There's another copper that's intensive care. Why? Because we underestimate a 14-year-old, we didn't give ourselves the gift of the time. It isn't.

Speaker 2:

And I'm not going to call that caper, because I wasn't there, brian, but what I'm saying is it's emblematic of the symptoms, of how one of those cases goes Right. We reach in and grab the perndal because we don't expect the driver to drive away, expect the driver to drive away. We're patting somebody down and we say, hey, gun, partner, you know. And we're expecting our partner to be able to figure that out in nanoseconds and and take cover and come to my aid. And and, brian, that's where training has to come in, because the gift of time and distance isn't as easy as we're making it sound. It's a fucking hard thing to do and takes rehearsal, it takes practice yes, and, and so you.

Speaker 1:

You meant that this is where I I come in with what I've said before. You know where you know, human behavior is just way in some way more simple than people realize and then also way more complex than we're kind of willing to grasp, sometimes like at the same time and, and so this goes into that that we talked about a number of times when, when people do that, you know well, anything could happen, or this.

Speaker 1:

It's like no, no, no, it cannot. There's, there's a finite number of things that can occur throughout your day and only so many of them are likely right and some are unlikely. And so when you get into understanding the time and distance and what you're talking about with this cognitive edge like that's why we have HBPRA, that's our methodology of doing it and that's why we have, you know, the SPAR Sense, make Problem Solve, adaptability, resilience and how to use that, because that provides a framework. But you know my but I'm always just curious by it it's like we still fall into that, even when people go oh yeah, I, I get it. Yeah, of course we want to have time and distance, yeah, we want.

Speaker 1:

But but the, the application of it, the actual process of doing it, is rarely done. So what? Why? When even you know anyone could look at just topically some of the things that we discuss and and and that we show and go, oh yeah, no, I, that totally get that. Yeah, that makes sense that, but then we, we don't go out and apply those concepts. We don't do that.

Speaker 1:

I'm not talking about like someone going through a training course. I'm just saying like, oh, yeah, well, well, that and and that goes into it is is how do I do that then? So, like, how how can I develop this cognitive edge through some, like you know, mental rehearsal or practice throughout my day? Like how did you become good? Like good at it in a sense of noticing things and then attributing value to it, but then taking that and applying that to situations in a completely different context or a completely different domain, because that's where it seems to get difficult for people, which is why we use these generalizations and that's why we say time and distance. It's like, okay, well, look, time and distance you can use in any situation. That's the point of doing it, and it's the same with everything but but. But then how? How do I? How do we do that on a daily basis?

Speaker 1:

how can I sit here and say you know what I'm saying? Like, how do I, how do I come up with a strategy to get better at this? On my own cognitively.

Speaker 2:

I can only prompt people to training by giving them examples of what training can give them, because doing the process would take a series of these podcasts, and we've been doing it for three years now and we're no closer to solving it for everybody, because it is a complex problem. It's a lifestyle change. It's how you must think about things in the future. So everybody out there knows Cabela's catalogs and the other one, the fish guys, the whatever, the place where you buy all your fishing gear and stuff. They've got those huge factory stores and outlets all over the place that sell all kinds of cool stuff. So we would have people that came to the ranch for 13 years and I would tell them, when I talked to them on the phone and when I sent them emails back and forth their texts don't go to Cabela's and buy your gear before you come to the ranch, because you're going to be up in the high country in Colorado. So make sure that everything you buy is high res orange or high vis pink and you'll find it again. And you know what they did, brian. They went to Cabela's and that fish place and they bought a range cam or a trail cam or whatever else that they wanted to. And while they were going around, and they got on and off their horse and had lunch and took a picture of a fucking porcupine, they left that camera on the side of the trail somewhere and me, with eight different ranch hands, were up there arm and arm searching around and guess what? Nine out of 10 times we couldn't find shit. Why? Because it was camouflage. So is that human behavior pattern recognition analysis? Of course, because, even though your instincts are going to tell you, this guy told me that the best way is to buy something bright. You thought it would look a lot cooler to have that hand-me-down lighter, that flipped Zippo and flat black, okay, and you can't find the son of a bitch anymore. So a simple idea like that. So let's turn that on our edge. Before you buy a fishing lure, take a look at the water and figure out what the fish sees. So, so simple.

Speaker 2:

Things like that came from my skin knees growing up and smacking me and teaching me my mom and my aunt the Twin Towers that lived right across the street from each other, that not only survived the Nazi party but they survived the Russian purge after that and had to live on their own. So all of that street knowledge was that people always telegraph things before they happen. People are always on transmit. So if I pay attention to those sound waves, if I pay attention to those particles that are always present, that are around me, they hurry up and heat up and move faster, or they slow way down and get thick and boggy. When something's about to happen, and and you know that anybody out there knows that before an ambush, all of a sudden comms either spike and they're you know, all over the place, or comms go down to nothing. You know that just before somebody smacks somebody, everything goes real good and real quiet, or things go noisy right before they happen. So all I did was turn it into a gosh damn art form by writing down all these things and telling people, and then you know what I had to deconstruct it.

Speaker 2:

So, so the the greatest part about reintegration and those type of things science folks go look it up and understanding is that you have to take a look at a situation backwards. You have to take a look and reverse engineer it. How did we get here? And, if you can do the, how did we get here? Before you knock on the door, before you step out of the scout car before you go to apply that first handcuff, before you fire that person at a business meeting or approach that kid at his locker. If you can do those things before hence the term left a bang then you're likely to be able to conduct predictive analysis in real time and avoid dangerous situations and capitalize on those that are going to benefit you. It's really that simple and that's so hard.

Speaker 1:

It's taken me my entire life to tell people, and one of the one of the things I like to tell people is know your role and your goal. Meaning what? What is your job in this situation? What is your role right, whether you're, you know, at the store with your kids or you're at work, whatever, what's your role? And then, what are you trying to get? What's the end state you're working towards?

Speaker 1:

You know, when you walk into something like what is the goal I want out of this, because to me, like that helps sort of with that orientation of what I'm going to perceive right, if it's my goal is to you know what I'm going to get the kids and I'm leaving right now because I don't like where the situation is, or it's the opposite, it's oh, I'm. You know I have to go into this situation. What is my goal? What is the way I want this to end right? What's what am I working towards? Because that helps frame everything that happens.

Speaker 1:

The way you perceive everything is is it has to start there, because if I don't have something specific in mind, then it's sort of like chaotic right, and so meaning you know, you're almost like what we're starting. Like you said, all right if we're going to pick apart something from the past and say how did we get here? Right that that's easier because I can. I, the facts are already known. Right, I can look back in time and gather data, or whatever right so now, now to project that to the future.

Speaker 1:

it's like well, I have to know where, where would I like this to go? What do I want this ending to be? And therefore, I'll either know, like the like, I will perceive the elements that are necessary to get there, or they won't be there and I'll be able to go OK, well, that's not going to happen based on what's happening. So I need to come up with a new goal and then reorient myself. Does that kind of make sense as sort of just an overall mental process?

Speaker 2:

That's brilliant, and so let me street it up again. Driving through the streets of metropolitan Detroit on midnight shift with heater off and my windows down, even in winter, what am I listening for? I'm listening for fences. I'm listening for somebody to hit a cyclone fence at night. That's interesting to me. What am I listening for? I'm listening for dogs barking in one area and then barking in another area. Is it a possum or is it a B&E boy?

Speaker 2:

All of those things that are environmentals are out there a smell, a sound, a feel. And, brian, the more I get in tune with those, the more they tend to match mental models, my file folders, or it's something so nuanced that I haven't seen it before. And now I know whatever external stimulus is creating this I have to know more about, because this might be a thing that turns dangerous or turns opportunistic. So I have to, and we're back to early diagnosis, and the idea is that these things are probably something more than the average night, because on the average night, because on the average night, none of them happen. And then decisional space. Brian, you said something I want everybody to listen to. You were talking about not only the range of feasible options or choices available to you. But you're also talking about what's the investment. If I'm with my family, I may retreat much more quickly, I may move to cover or just absent myself from the situation much more quickly than if I was alone. But the other thing is look, I don't want to get clipped pulling my legal carry gun because the cop thinks I'm part of the robbery. Okay, so that's part of that decisional space, the rehearsal phase. The other thing is like what right do I have to just walk away? Well, you don't. You are your brother's keeper.

Speaker 2:

I've had thousands of 911 calls go to dispatch, where I was listening, where the dispatcher heard something like this hey, this is probably nothing, but there's a person out on route six that's hitchhiking, and it's dark and they're wearing all dark clothes and it just didn't feel right. Or I saw these two guys and one was wearing a camouflage shirt and one was wearing camouflage pants, and these guys certainly weren't hunters. Or I saw this kid and he wasn't running for the bus, he was running from the bus. Do you know how many calls come in with that partial information? And somewhere there's an expert dispatcher going hey, this is different, this is somehow interesting to me and sends a car out or a copper hears that and goes. I wonder why those dogs are barking, I wonder why that guy's in that backyard. I wonder why that person's still laying on that park bench.

Speaker 2:

So, brian, your level of intrigue, your level of interest, thinking that things are interesting is the key to situation awareness. And the gift of time and distance is that credit card I carry with me to make sure I can buy myself out of a shitty situation. You have to have both. If you don't have both, then all your decisions are made on the X, and being on the bubble is no fucking prize pig. You get what I'm trying to say.

Speaker 2:

You want to have you want to be able to back off. Look, when we see stuff like Brazilian jujitsu, you able to back off. Look, when we see stuff like Brazilian jujitsu, you're on a bubble, You're on the X all the time. Nobody goes hey, drive me to the scene. I'm a Brazilian jujitsu expert. I'll chase the guy down and then do my shit. You see what I'm trying to say. It's literally called self-defense for a reason. So what we're is we're sort of countering that by saying the more intrigue you put to life and to events left of the event, the better you will be at demystifying it when it comes time to act or decide and you're talking about switching from that sort of defensive mindset in a sense to an offensive one is proactive.

Speaker 1:

But here's my question about what you brought up is like how, with with all of those perceptions and then everything else in life competing for my attention, right, I, I, how do I attend to the things that matter in a sense, versus just just bringing in? Okay, yeah, I noticed the trash on the ground over there and the smell over here and maybe a dog bark there, but like I can't, as a human being, process all of that in in in my environment at a time, or if I try to, that's the hyper vigilance that's, you're just going to go nuts and constantly looking for something.

Speaker 2:

How do I flip that switch?

Speaker 1:

Well, yeah, so, so, but, but I but it's a, it's a mostly unconscious process, but how can I become more aware of that, you know, without overwhelming myself and and having too much competing for my attention?

Speaker 2:

That's the perfect question. But you're riding for a fall if you keep thinking down that direction. And what I mean by that is you have to be on the offense without being offensive, because if you're questioning things all the time, sooner or later somebody's going to punch you in the eye or get pissed or throw you out, or you're not going to have a job, or your wife or your significant other or your husband's going to leave you because you're spending too much time on it. But the idea is this when you go to turn the ignition in your car, you understand that a seatbelt is going to save your life. You understand that cars were built so good at one point that when they hit, they killed everybody in the other car because the car didn't have a crumple zone. Okay, you understand that the faster I drive on inclement conditions, the greater risk of hydroplaning and crashing into something. So while we understand that that science is always at work, we don't acknowledge it. So all I'm saying is that in your day-to-day, what are the most like? Look, you remember that Bruce Willis in the fifth element, and he looked through the eye hole before he walked out into the hallway and there was a guy with the hat of the hallway on. So when he looked out, it looked just like the hallway, but when he stepped out, it was a guy wearing a hat of the hallway and a guy robbed them. Okay, so what am I trying to say? Well, simple physics will set you free Before you walk into a lit room from another lit room, shut off the light in the room where you're at, because now you're not going to have a backlight when you walk into that room and your eyes have had a few nanoseconds to adjust before you've got this new lighting situation. Okay, that's simple. Have you walked around your house to listen to where the creaks are? So, if you're laying at bed, do you know what it sounds like when somebody's walking up or down your stairs Before you step outside? Do you look out the window before you step outside? Maybe because of the weather, not because somebody's going to rob you in your neighborhood? Brian, those are so low on the calorie conscious level and those are so easy for everybody to do.

Speaker 2:

But if you just did that, if you just increased a couple of those things on being more observant and priming yourself, for before I get into the car, I'm going to walk all the way around the car. What am I going to do for? Look for leaks. I'm going to make sure there's nobody in the back seat. Make sure my trunk is secured so I don't have to secure that son of a bitch when I'm on the road. You know how many people don't find out about burglaries until they're confronting the burglar. How the heck did that happen to you?

Speaker 2:

So simple things, just like I'm saying fish don't know it's raining. So before I go fishing and somebody goes, oh it's raining outside, I don't give a damn. That's how fish eat. But you know, what I have to know am that's how fish eat. But you know what I have to know what's the water temperature? What colors does that fish see? Is a vibrating lure better than a whatever? So if I'm doing that for fishing and you see those Saturday morning shows around all the time, then why am I not doing that before I walk into a 7-Eleven? Why do I not park for just a minute before I put it in? Park and look, stand. I guess that would be calling. And look at the parking lot hey, why is that car backed in and idling? I haven't seen a cop in this neighborhood in the last five minutes.

Speaker 2:

Those kind of things will save your life.

Speaker 2:

But we know better, and we know better is that chemical cocktail that's in our brain saying the more we repeat behaviors and nothing happens, the more likely that becomes in the future.

Speaker 2:

And that's just not true. Likely that becomes in the future, and that's just not true. The strength of the argument is gas stations are more dangerous, driving above the speed limit is more dangerous. Having too much to drink and staying in a bar too long is too dangerous, because you're going to get punched or you're going to get robbed or something else is going to happen, and we know that. So science will set us free. Math doesn't go well sometimes, you know, but we don't want to listen to that because life is more fun. So my argument to you is it's more fun screwing and drinking and partying and listening to my loud music than it is being situationally aware. But a moderate level of situation awareness, and in other words, operating in a zone forever, is attainable. So why wouldn't you want to do it? But it's hard, it takes calories and, in other words, operating in a zone forever is attainable.

Speaker 1:

So why wouldn't you?

Speaker 2:

want to do it, but but it's hard, it takes calories. So there's the argument for humans. You know, I'm telling you.

Speaker 1:

This is better for you. But why do? Why do I want to do it? Cause it's not doing it Well, and you know it's the, the, the, the small, moderate improvements over time is a far better strategy than the let's do everything right now.

Speaker 2:

Of course you're losing weight or quitting smoking, or getting the right husband and wife, or training your kids, Right, but immediate gratification is what we're all about, Brian.

Speaker 1:

And our loins and our limbic system are still in that loop. Right, that's a great point. It's a double edged sword, in a sense of how are, how we're wired and how our unconscious brain works. It's like it can be really, it's wired to be really, really good for us. However, it gets hijacked by our emotional state and things get overwhelmed and then we fall back on survival or you know, basically. But you know, you're, you know, and this is why I brought up the beginning. It's both a literal and sort of metaphorical sense, with this time distance, because what you're talking about is literally like stop, take a look, you know, look into the window of the 7-eleven before you walk in to see if there's. You know someone in there with a gun to the, to the, to the head of the 7-Eleven before you walk in to see if there's someone in there with a gun to the head of the cash register and it takes three seconds.

Speaker 1:

But you know, and that gives. Well, that's. The thing is that then we have a lot of other things in our mind competing for our attention and we're distracted, and now we get overwhelmed.

Speaker 2:

But what's more important than our own survival. You see, the problem is that we live in an environment that's not as dangerous as we're making it out, and so there's less consequences, far less consequences than early man. So, therefore, we've lulled ourself into the fact that what are the chances there's going to be a robbery at the 7-Eleven that I'm going to today? Well, there's a fucking dead guy in the cemetery that's saying the same thing, same thing.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, it's a balance, isn't it? It is, and so you're basically so kind of what you're saying is like we don't exercise, we don't, we aren't forced to use, we aren't forced to use the gift of time it is, we don't exercise as much anymore, simply because it's like a. I mean more people, more people die today from overeating than under eating, right? I mean we're it's just a different. I mean more people die today from overeating than undereating, right? I mean it's just a different world than what we're wired for. And so, taking like we now have to sort of learn this skill set, but it has to be framed within some context that I can use it in.

Speaker 2:

So let me throw this at you, because you have a daughter that's right in the age range of these incidents. So I've been on a number of incidents too many the, the asshole range yeah, yeah. No, I'm not saying that.

Speaker 2:

I'm talking about the insurgent uh terrorist range, where she's learning enough about the car that it ain't an irish car bomb and and the idea is that what happens is she's going to go to a party and it's going to be a birthday party and you're going to relax because she makes good decisions and you know the other family and everything else. But I've been on the other end of that, where I have to go and take the report on. Well, when was the last time you saw her?

Speaker 1:

And is it a?

Speaker 2:

runaway or was she kidnapped and did this happen where a predator watched this and knew and conducted surveillance? So, Brian, if you want to avoid those things that you never see because you're not in the inner loop, you got to read more, you got to study more, you got to look around more. There was a caper I don't know if I'm saying these things, if the places are even still around but it was a homicide at the Memphis Lounge and I remember that dog was on the scene and was giving me updates from the information that were going on, and the idea was that it was very interesting to me that this person walked in. They were still doing karaoke night. I need you to understand that. And Shell was like hey, can you shut off the music and turn up the house lights on a homicide at a packed bar. So what does that tell you? Right away, However, that person shot that other person in there. It was very, very discreet. Why? Because people would have screamed, they would have ran outside, the house lights would already be on, nobody would still be singing karaoke.

Speaker 2:

So this is me processing it and I've got another expert that's on the scene telling me about it. So I'm at another bar and I see a guy get out of the sled and he's walking up to the front of the bar and he's got both hands jammed down in the front of his pockets and one of his pockets is smoking and I go well, that's interesting. And then all of a sudden I'm going well, why would this guy's pocket be smoking? Well, if he fired the hand gum from inside the pocket and I rolled the guy up and it ends up being the right guy. Now somebody else listening right now is going oh, you're just lucky, Right place, right time. Nope, going on, and guess what Historical perspective. I was able to use my situation awareness to link that to other events that it may be important to. You know who didn't do that? Franz Ferdinand, and he's dead.

Speaker 2:

So the idea, Brian, is absolutely everything is on transmit, but if I don't stick my toe in the pool water, I'm going to get frozen when I jump in. I have to look before I leap, I have to consider, I have to understand that priming occurs. Even though I'm an expert, I get primed and I'd sit down for breakfast and I leave my flashlight and PR24 and everything else in my scout car. You see what I'm trying to say Even the best experts in the world, we relax too soon in an environment. And I'm not talking about being geeked constantly, I'm talking about looking at those things.

Speaker 2:

You know one of those families where that girl was missing. The family had no DNA evidence so we couldn't help use that. The family shared a toothbrush, they shared the comb and the brush in the bathroom. And you're thinking, well, that's the worst case scenario that I got to be doing DNA to match my daughter's body out of all the bodies in the morgue yeah, match my daughter's body out of all the bodies in the morgue yeah. But if you work far enough left to bang Brian in almost every one of those incidents, it's preventable. That's why we teach HPPRNA. We teach you to be a harder person to capture, a harder person to kill, to make you more resilient over time. And guess what the beauty of our system is? The more you do it, the better you get.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and then that's our process for gaining time and distance in a very, you know, methodical, uh way. That is is process oriented, that allows you to repeatable to sense making problem solve yeah, of course, and and, like you said, in in in any, in any circumstance.

Speaker 1:

so my, my, my thing is is is you know what are those and you you're, you're talking about it, but, like the, you know those things that I do on a day or, or you can do on a daily basis, and you know it really is taking that second to have that, that, that foresight of, well, what's my role, where you know what's my goal here, where, where do I want this to go? Can I take a second, a minute, an hour, whatever is necessary to plan something out? And, and that is not a lot of people think that, well, you can't take the time you got to make a decision right now. And almost my my thing is you rarely ever do right now, like you, what situation in life where you couldn't take an extra second? I know that's what we. We jam on that, we jam on that gas pedal I love it and then go yeah, it's

Speaker 2:

like the, the, the, yeah yeah, let me give you another example. You remember we were working with some of the best trained DEA operatives ever, ever, and there was some Bortec and Borestar people that were smattered into that training and we were out in the middle, it was 120 degrees in the shade and we were on Conexes with binos and we were watching and the one guy ran from the ambush that we were setting up and went around a building, ran from the ambush that we were setting up and went around a building and what we taught those folks is to time it. How long did it take them to get from here to here? How long did it take them to get from here to here? So what's a likely amount of time that they're going to spend behind that building? And then they could figure out where that person was likely to come out and if the person ditched some goods behind it, why? Because guess what? They took longer behind that building than they did between these other things.

Speaker 2:

And those guys had that epiphany moment. You remember the female and the male agent sitting up there going, holy shit, never thought of that. So you know what? That's better than having a dog to go back and find that gun. It's better that when that person spills out into a crowd, figuring out that, wait a minute, that person came out at the right time, but they're wearing a yellow shirt rather than a red. Go back there and see if there's a red shirt.

Speaker 2:

The idea is that it's a game, brian. It's like it's like being Sherlock Holmes, you know, and and and trying to do stuff without the Calabash pipe, and it's fun. So why wouldn't you want to have fun every single day? What's this person telling me? What's his clothing? Telling me? What's a lint in his pocket? What's the garbage in their car? What about where they park? What about if the car is running? All of those things matter, and we just have created a system that's much easier for you to quickly address those.

Speaker 2:

It's no longer like Plinko, and sitting there you know, with your your, your scratching your head. Now you're looking at a situation and going this is what I think is happening. For this to continue happening, the next thing I'm going to see, sense, smell or taste is going to be this and if I see that, then I know what's happening and I can avoid it. That's magic, and and unless you've been to a course and seen it and unless you've tried it on your own, you won't understand how cool it is and what I mean about fishing. I keep going back to the fishing metaphor. There were guys in Iraq and Afghanistan who were trying to equal my success and you know what they could do. They could find a V-bit, they could find a body bomber, but you know what they couldn't do. They couldn't pass that knowledge on to you. And the difference, the legacy that we've made, brian, is we can transfer these skills so you can go out in real time and use them, no matter where you work and no matter what the environment is, and that's pretty cool.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so that's kind of a lot on time and distance and what we mean by the cognitive edge and maybe some simple exercises to do, and they aren't, you know. It's like people go, yeah, okay, I get it, and this seems, you know, self-evident, or you know, it seems you know, I got it, but it, unless you're doing some sort of deliberate practice with it, it's not going to be something that you do all the time.

Speaker 2:

And you're not going to get better at it. Right, right, right.

Speaker 1:

Right, right, all right. Well, I don't know anything else we need to cover. Yeah, it's an easy episode. It's kind of a lot about time and distance.

Speaker 2:

You should give a warning before these episodes. Take two tiles.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

You know what I'm saying and sit back in the easy chair Because, basically, what this was is an intro to welcome to the gift of time and distance. So we need to go deeper, but you know how we go deeper.

Speaker 1:

Folks. You got to write your questions, feedback, yeah, yeah, I agree that that's exactly. It is yeah to to reach out, and then obviously we always have more on on patreon and give out examples and stuff on there. But but, yeah, okay, that was, that was good. I kind of wanted to just cover that with everyone and and talk about, you know, define what we mean by time and distance and just how big of a concept it really is and so, but how? But also then how you can sort of integrate that onto your, the daily things that you do. You know, then, iteratively, over time, you will do it unconsciously, basically. At that point, if you get a prep, yeah, you'll, you'll, you'll, and that's the point is to get it to the point where you're doing it without realizing you're doing it Right, and now they are they, they, they definitely.

Speaker 1:

we all know that habits are hard to break, so why don't you make it a good habit, All right? Well, yeah, Appreciate everyone for tuning in again. Always reach out to us. If you have any questions. You can shoot us an email or hop on Patreon and ask. But thanks everyone for tuning in and don't forget that training changes behavior.

People on this episode